“Dr. Stern’s explanation of how to identify this kind of covert emotional control and abuse, and how to resist it, is a very important tool for young women in particular to use, if they wish to safeguard their emotional well-being,… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Paradoxically .. the very feminist movement that gave women more options also helped create pressure on many of us to be strong, successful, and independent—the kind of women who would theoretically be immune to any form of abuse from men.… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Dr. Stern’s explanation of how to identify this kind of covert emotional control and abuse, and how to resist it, is a very important… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“1. You are constantly second-guessing yourself. 2. You ask yourself, “Am I too sensitive?” a dozen times a day. 3. You often feel confused… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“I think this point is so important, I'm going to repeat it: You should never listen to criticism that is primarily intended to wound,… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Don't ask yourself, "Who's Right?" Ask yourself, "Do I like being treated this way?” — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Instead of realizing how much she didn't like Matt's behavior, Leah took the problem on herself, crafting a reassuring explanation that made her entirely… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Paradoxically .. the very feminist movement that gave women more options also helped create pressure on many of us to be strong, successful, and… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
