“Instead of realizing how much she didn't like Matt's behavior, Leah took the problem on herself, crafting a reassuring explanation that made her entirely responsible for everything that went wrong, and so, presumably, entirely capable of fixing it.” — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Dr. Stern’s explanation of how to identify this kind of covert emotional control and abuse, and how to resist it, is a very important… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“1. You are constantly second-guessing yourself. 2. You ask yourself, “Am I too sensitive?” a dozen times a day. 3. You often feel confused… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“I think this point is so important, I'm going to repeat it: You should never listen to criticism that is primarily intended to wound,… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Don't ask yourself, "Who's Right?" Ask yourself, "Do I like being treated this way?” — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Instead of realizing how much she didn't like Matt's behavior, Leah took the problem on herself, crafting a reassuring explanation that made her entirely… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
“Paradoxically .. the very feminist movement that gave women more options also helped create pressure on many of us to be strong, successful, and… — Robin Stern Copy Share Image
