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Perhaps,” said Demelza, trembling all over. “Perhaps I’d…

“Perhaps,” said Demelza, trembling all over. “Perhaps I’d ought to have asked for an introduction seeing it’s so long since we met.” “I don’t doubt you have been well consoled in my absence,” said Ross. “You were not concerned to come and see whether I was or no.” “It seems that I was unwelcome…” quote by Winston Graham
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““Perhaps,” said Demelza, trembling all over. “Perhaps I’d ought to have asked for an introduction seeing it’s so long since we met.” “I don’t doubt you have been well consoled in my absence,” said Ross. “You were not concerned to come and see whether I was or no.” “It seems that I was unwelcome when I did.””

Winston Graham

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A character reflects on missed opportunities and the awkwardness of reconnecting after a long separation, highlighting social anxiety and the desire for acceptance.

In simple terms: Feeling uneasy about reconnecting after a long time.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge feelings and reach out honestly.

Themes

social anxiety reconnection acceptance communication

Mood

anxious reflective

Type

dialogue literary

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • old friendships
  • networking events
  • reunion celebrations

Key Concepts

interpersonal dynamics self‑esteem social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you handle awkward silences?
  • What steps can you take to ease tension when reconnecting?
A Different Perspective

The quote assumes the other party is receptive, which may not be true.

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