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“I find it hard to describe what it is like to look fully into eyes that one has known that well--known better than one knows the look of one's own eyes, actually--and then put away, deliberately forgotten. That instantly reasserted intimacy, that resumption of what looks like friendly concern, is…” quote by Wallace Stegner
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““I find it hard to describe what it is like to look fully into eyes that one has known that well--known better than one knows the look of one's own eyes, actually--and then put away, deliberately forgotten. That instantly reasserted intimacy, that resumption of what looks like friendly concern, is like nakedness, like exposure.””

Wallace Stegner

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Seeing deeply into someone you truly know can feel both intimate and exposing, revealing a nakedness that is both comforting and unsettling.

In simple terms: Deep familiarity feels both intimate and exposing.

Key Takeaway

Abrace vulnerability in close relationships.

Themes

intimacy exposure vulnerability

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • family gatherings
  • reunions
  • confessional moments

Key Concepts

psychology human connection memory

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance closeness with personal boundaries?
  • What does “nakedness” mean to you in relationships?
A Different Perspective

Intimacy can also bring discomfort and fear of being seen too clearly.

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