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“When I was young I had an elderly friend who used often to ask me to stay with him in the country. He was a religious man and he read prayers to the assembled household every morning. But he had crossed out in pencil all the passages that praised God. He said that there was nothing so vulgar as to…” quote by W. Somerset Maugham
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“When I was young I had an elderly friend who used often to ask me to stay with him in the country. He was a religious man and he read prayers to the assembled household every morning. But he had crossed out in pencil all the passages that praised God. He said that there was nothing so vulgar as to praise people to their faces and, himself a gentleman, he could not believe that God was so ungentlemanly as to like it.”

W. Somerset Maugham

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He critiques superficial religious praise, valuing sincerity over empty flattery.

In simple terms: True respect is earned, not forced.

Key Takeaway

Seek genuine expression.

Themes

religion authenticity humility

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • church gatherings
  • personal interactions
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

ethics social critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you value honesty over politeness?
  • When is flattery harmful?
A Different Perspective

Some may view his stance as disrespectful to faith.

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