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“Now listen. If I think he’s awful we’ll just talk about the weather and the crops for a few minutes and then we’ll have an ominous pause and stare at him. That always makes a man feel a perfect fool and the moment a man feels a fool he gets up and goes.” quote by W. Somerset Maugham
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““Now listen. If I think he’s awful we’ll just talk about the weather and the crops for a few minutes and then we’ll have an ominous pause and stare at him. That always makes a man feel a perfect fool and the moment a man feels a fool he gets up and goes.””

W. Somerset Maugham

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Diverting conversation to trivial topics can expose a person's insecurity, prompting them to leave the interaction.

In simple terms: Talking about small things can make someone feel foolish and exit.

Key Takeaway

Use light topics to defuse tension.

Themes

communication social dynamics psychology

Mood

analytical empathetic

Type

advisory observational

When to use this quote

  • meetings
  • negotiations
  • social gatherings
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

power dynamics self‑esteem conversation tactics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do people feel foolish when ignored?
  • What are ethical ways to change a conversation?
A Different Perspective

May cause resentment if perceived as manipulative.

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