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“I may cause someone to feel badly, not because I'm doing something to them, but because the way in which I see might cause pain. But I am not doing the hurting.” quote by Vivian Gornick
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“I may cause someone to feel badly, not because I'm doing something to them, but because the way in which I see might cause pain. But I am not doing the hurting.”

Vivian Gornick

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Our viewpoint can unintentionally cause others distress, even without intent to harm.

In simple terms: Seeing can hurt others.

Key Takeaway

Mindful perception.

Themes

empathy communication psychology

Mood

thoughtful cautious

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • conflict resolution
  • teaching

Key Concepts

cognitive bias social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we check our assumptions?
  • What steps reduce unintentional hurt?
A Different Perspective

Intentional harm is still possible.

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