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“Heterosexual relationships seem to lead only to marriage, and for most poor dumb brainwashed women marriage is the climactic experience. For men, marriage is a matter of efficient logistics: the male gets his food, bed, laundry, TV, pussy, offspring and creature comforts all under one roof, where…” quote by Tom Robbins
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““Heterosexual relationships seem to lead only to marriage, and for most poor dumb brainwashed women marriage is the climactic experience. For men, marriage is a matter of efficient logistics: the male gets his food, bed, laundry, TV, pussy, offspring and creature comforts all under one roof, where he doesn't have to dissipate his psychic energy thinking about them too much - then he is free to go out and fight the battles of life, which is what existence is all about. But for a woman, marriage is surrender. Marriage is when a girl gives up the fight, walks off the battlefield and from then on leaves the truly interesting and significant action to her husband, who has bargained to 'take care' of her. What a sad bum deal. Women live longer than men because they really haven't been living. Better blue-in-the-face dead of a heart attack at fifty than a healthy seventy-year old widow who hasn't had a piece of life's action since girlhood.””

Tom Robbins

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote argues that traditional marriage confines women to passive roles while granting men freedom to pursue life's battles, portraying marriage as a surrender for women.

In simple terms: Marriage limits women, frees men.

Key Takeaway

Question gender roles in relationships.

Themes

gender marriage power dynamics freedom identity

Mood

critical reflective skeptical

Type

social commentary opinion philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • gender studies
  • personal development
  • activism
  • education

Key Concepts

patriarchy sociology existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does marriage shape personal agency?
  • Can partnership be equitable?
A Different Perspective

It overlooks diverse marital experiences and agency women seek.

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