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Faced with parts of ourselves that we do not recognize…

“Faced with parts of ourselves that we do not recognize, would like perhaps not to recognize, we deny the kinship, and often lean away from the new and into the old, accentuating the familiar qualities that complement the strange new ones.” quote by Thomas Van Nortwick
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““Faced with parts of ourselves that we do not recognize, would like perhaps not to recognize, we deny the kinship, and often lean away from the new and into the old, accentuating the familiar qualities that complement the strange new ones.””

Thomas Van Nortwick

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We avoid unfamiliar aspects of ourselves, preferring familiar traits over new, strange ones.

In simple terms: People resist recognizing unknown parts of themselves, clinging to familiar qualities.

Key Takeaway

Embrace the unfamiliar to grow.

Themes

self‑awareness identity comfort zone change acceptance

Mood

reflective introspective challenging

Type

Kinship:1 Deny Kinship:1 Kinship Lean:0 Familiar Qualities:1 Accentuating Familiar:0

When to use this quote

  • personal growth
  • therapy
  • team building
  • cross‑cultural interaction

Key Concepts

psychology identity formation cognitive bias social conformity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What unfamiliar part of yourself are you avoiding?
  • How can you honor both old and new aspects?
A Different Perspective

Familiarity can hinder personal development and integration of new experiences.

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