In truth, politeness is artificial good humor, it covers…
“In truth, politeness is artificial good humor, it covers the natural want of it, and ends by rendering habitual a substitute nearly equivalent to the real virtue. It is the practice of sacrificing to those whom we meet in society, all the little inconveniences and preferences which will gratify them, and deprive us of nothing worth a moment's consideration; it is the giving a pleasing and flattering turn to our expressions, which will conciliate others, and make them pleased with us as well as themselves. How cheap a price for the good will of another!”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Politeness masks true motives, offering flattery that pleases others while costing nothing, yet it substitutes genuine virtue with superficial courtesy.
In simple terms: Politeness is cheap flattery that feels good.
Key Takeaway
Use sincere respect instead of empty courtesy.
Themes
social etiquette
virtue
authenticity
interpersonal relations
Mood
thoughtful
reflective
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- business meetings
- dinner parties
- customer service
- networking events
Key Concepts
moral philosophy
social behavior
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you rely on politeness or honesty in conflict?
- How does flattery affect genuine relationships?
A Different Perspective
Politeness can become insincere, eroding trust if overused.