I know women are taught by other women that they must…
““I know women are taught by other women that they must never admit the full truth to a man. But the highest form of affection is based on full sincerity on both sides. Not being men, these women don't know that in looking back on those he has had tender relations with, a man's heart returns closest to her who was the soul of truth in her conduct. The better class of man, even if caught by airy affectations of dodging and parrying, is not retained by them. A Nemesis attends the woman who plays the game of elusiveness too often, in the utter contempt for her that, sooner or later, her old admirers feel; under which they allow her to go unlamented to her grave.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
True intimacy requires mutual honesty; deceit erodes trust and invites resentment.
In simple terms: Honesty builds deep connections.
Key Takeaway
Practice sincere communication.
Themes
trust
gender dynamics
honesty
relationships
Mood
thoughtful
serious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- friendship
- workplace collaboration
- family discussions
Key Concepts
feminist theory
ethical intimacy
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears prevent you from being fully honest?
- How does honesty affect power balance?
A Different Perspective
Cultural expectations may pressure women to conceal truth.