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“Here were these two, bandying little phrases, drawing purses, looking at cards, and both unconscious of how inarticulate all their real feelings were. Neither was wise enough to be sure of the working of the mind of the other. He could not tell how his luring succeeded. She could not realized that…” quote by Theodore Dreiser
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““Here were these two, bandying little phrases, drawing purses, looking at cards, and both unconscious of how inarticulate all their real feelings were. Neither was wise enough to be sure of the working of the mind of the other. He could not tell how his luring succeeded. She could not realized that she was drifting, until he secured her address. Now she felt that she had yielded something - he, that he had gained a victory. Already he took control in directing the conversation. His words were easy. Her manner was relaxed.””

Theodore Dreiser

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People often act unaware of their deeper emotions, leading to manipulation and loss of control.

In simple terms: Unconscious feelings cause manipulation and loss of control.

Key Takeaway

Become aware of hidden emotions.

Themes

psychology relationships communication

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • office dynamics
  • family discussions

Key Concepts

unconscious motives manipulation self-awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What signals reveal hidden motives?
  • How can one protect themselves from subtle manipulation?
A Different Perspective

Awareness alone may not prevent manipulation.

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