way to respond to such a test is to give an ambiguous…
““way to respond to such a test is to give an ambiguous answer and then change the topic. For example, you could respond by saying - “It’s hard to know what people mean to say when you cannot see their body language, mannerisms, etc.” Never qualify yourself in your emails. If she mentions in an email that she loves the car that you are standing next to in one of your photographs, get her talking about why she loves it. Ask her about her interest in automobiles. You could even ask her if she has a need for speed. Do not begin talking about how you bought that car last year and it cost you a pretty penny. Do not talk about how it goes from zero to 60 miles per hour in under five seconds or how people always ask you to give them a joyride in it. Do not bite on her bait. A woman will do this to see if a man might slip up and show her exactly how desperate he is to get validation from other people, especially women. Sample questions Which of the following animals do you like? a. Komodo dragon (+5) b. Bonobo (+3) c. Dog (0) d. Cat (-1) Your friends would describe you as: a. Sweet and supportive (+5) b. Feisty, fun and sassy (+3) c. Strong and independent (0) d. Totally random (-1)””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The passage advises using vague, topic‑shifting responses and steering conversation toward the other person’s interests while avoiding self‑promotion or overt eagerness for approval.
In simple terms: Use ambiguous answers, change subject, focus on their interests, don’t reveal desperation.
Key Takeaway
Stay curious, keep focus on them, avoid self‑praise.
Themes
communication
dating
psychology
Mood
cautious
analytical
playful
Type
advice
strategic
social.
When to use this quote
- online dating
- first dates
- email flirting
- social networking
Key Concepts
social dynamics
validation
conversation tactics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance genuine interest with strategic conversation?
- When does subtlety become deception?
A Different Perspective
May appear manipulative or insincere if overused.