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We say, "A good father is not a good father." Do you…

“We say, "A good father is not a good father." Do you understand? One who thinks he is a good father is not a good father; one who thinks he is a good husband is not a good husband. One who thinks he is one of the worst husbands may be a good one if he is always trying to be a good husband with a…” quote by Shunryu Suzuki
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““We say, "A good father is not a good father." Do you understand? One who thinks he is a good father is not a good father; one who thinks he is a good husband is not a good husband. One who thinks he is one of the worst husbands may be a good one if he is always trying to be a good husband with a single-hearted effort.””

Shunryu Suzuki

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The passage teaches that self-awareness of one's shortcomings can lead to genuine improvement, whereas overconfidence hinders growth.

In simple terms: Acknowledging flaws helps become better.

Key Takeaway

Embrace humility and continuous effort.

Themes

humility self-improvement parenting marriage

Mood

contemplative inspirational

Type

philosophical self‑help

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • personal development
  • coaching
  • therapy
  • leadership

Key Concepts

mindfulness self-awareness growth mindset relationships

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does recognizing your limits improve your relationships?
  • What practices foster honest self‑assessment?
A Different Perspective

Overconfidence can blind one to necessary change.

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