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Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and…

“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not…” quote by Shawn Slovo
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““Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. No, don't blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being "in love", which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.””

Shawn Slovo

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love transforms from intense passion to a deeper, enduring connection that survives beyond fleeting emotions.

In simple terms: Love changes from passion to lasting connection.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate lasting love beyond excitement.

Themes

love passion commitment identity

Mood

thoughtful philosophical hopeful

Type

Awake at night:0 Every second:0 Love:1 Love is love:1 Passion:0 Love Does:0 Inconceivable Love:0 Love Temporary:0 Love Breathlessness:0

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • personal growth
  • long‑term partnership

Key Concepts

psychology relationships philosophy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you sustain love after passion fades?
  • What defines true partnership?
A Different Perspective

Romantic love can be idealized; the reality may differ.

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