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Love is not breathlessness; It is not excitement; It is…

“Love is not breathlessness; It is not excitement; It is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love”, which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate…” quote by Louis de Bernieres
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“Love is not breathlessness; It is not excitement; It is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love”, which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.”

Louis de Bernieres

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love is the lasting, deeper feeling that remains after the initial excitement fades, an art and a fortunate accident.

In simple terms: Love endures beyond passion.

Key Takeaway

Value deep, lasting connections over fleeting romance.

Themes

love relationships emotion philosophy art

Mood

reflective hopeful introspective

Type

philosophical inspirational literary

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • friendship building
  • personal growth
  • creative writing
  • therapy

Key Concepts

attachment self‑realization serendipity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What distinguishes love from being in love?
  • How can we nurture lasting love?
A Different Perspective

Romantic love often fades, leaving a different, quieter bond.

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