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“I buried the girl I had been because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. She is still small and scared and ashamed, and perhaps I am writing my way back to her, trying to tell her everything she needs to hear.” quote by Roxane Gay
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““I buried the girl I had been because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. She is still small and scared and ashamed, and perhaps I am writing my way back to her, trying to tell her everything she needs to hear.””

Roxane Gay

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator confronts a lost part of herself, trying to reconnect with a suppressed inner child through writing.

In simple terms: Trying to heal a hidden, wounded self.

Key Takeaway

Write to reclaim and soothe your inner child.

Themes

self‑discovery healing identity writing

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

personal therapeutic

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • journaling
  • creative writing
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

psychology memory self‑compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • What part of yourself have you buried?
  • How can writing bridge that gap?
A Different Perspective

Healing may be slow and the inner child may resist.

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