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You want your parents to say, "Hey, I'm proud of you."…

“You want your parents to say, "Hey, I'm proud of you." When you don't hear that, you learn to compensate. You say, "Hell, I don't need their approval. If I get my music right, I'll have everyone else's approval." I didn't understand it then, but I now know that's what happened to me.” quote by Quincy Jones
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“You want your parents to say, "Hey, I'm proud of you." When you don't hear that, you learn to compensate. You say, "Hell, I don't need their approval. If I get my music right, I'll have everyone else's approval." I didn't understand it then, but I now know that's what happened to me.”

Quincy Jones

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Seeking external validation leads to self-reliance, but can also create inner conflict and dependence on others

In simple terms: Learning to value self over others' approval

Key Takeaway

Cultivate internal confidence

Themes

self‑esteem family dynamics validation

Mood

introspective motivational

Type

advice personal development

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • creative projects
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

psychology personal growth music industry

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does external validation affect your choices?
  • What steps can you take to build self‑approval?
A Different Perspective

Reliance on others' praise may hinder authentic self‑expression

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