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“We have our feelings, we make our decisions, but in the end we look back on our lives and see how sometimes we ignored our feelings, while most of our decisions were actually rationalizations because we had already decided in our secret hearts before we ever recognized it consciously.” quote by Orson Scott Card
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““We have our feelings, we make our decisions, but in the end we look back on our lives and see how sometimes we ignored our feelings, while most of our decisions were actually rationalizations because we had already decided in our secret hearts before we ever recognized it consciously.””

Orson Scott Card

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We often rationalize choices that our subconscious already decided, ignoring our true feelings.

In simple terms: We justify decisions made by our hidden desires.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and honor your feelings before rationalizing.

Themes

self-awareness decision-making inner conflict

Mood

reflective introspective

Type

philosophical motivational

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • career choices
  • ethical dilemmas

Key Concepts

psychology subconscious cognitive bias

Questions to Reflect On

  • What decisions have you rationalized that conflicted with your feelings?
  • How can you better listen to your inner voice?
A Different Perspective

Rationalizations can blind us to authentic emotions.

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