When I ask, “How are you?” that is really what I want to…
“When I ask, “How are you?” that is really what I want to know. I am not asking how many items are on your to-do list, nor asking how many items are in your inbox. I want to know how your heart is doing, at this very moment. Tell me. Tell me your heart is joyous, tell me your heart is aching, tell me your heart is sad, tell me your heart craves a human touch. Examine your own heart, explore your soul, and then tell me something about your heart and your soul.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A genuine inquiry about someone's emotional state goes beyond superficial check‑ins.
In simple terms: Ask about feelings, not tasks.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize emotional connection.
Themes
empathy
communication
vulnerability
Mood
caring
intimate
Type
conversational
psychological
When to use this quote
- friendship
- therapy
- team meetings
Key Concepts
emotional intelligence
mindfulness
human connection
Questions to Reflect On
- What does your heart feel now?
- How can you listen without judgment?
A Different Perspective
People may resist sharing deep feelings.