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“We can lie to ourselves, saying we believe one thing, and sometimes we convince other's it's true, with the hope that by convincing others, we can convince ourselves. Wars are often waged not because of what we believe, but because of the things we want others to believe.” quote by Neal Shusterman
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“We can lie to ourselves, saying we believe one thing, and sometimes we convince other's it's true, with the hope that by convincing others, we can convince ourselves. Wars are often waged not because of what we believe, but because of the things we want others to believe.”

Neal Shusterman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People often adopt beliefs to influence others, then use that external validation to reinforce their own convictions.

In simple terms: We convince others to convince ourselves.

Key Takeaway

Question your motives before trying to persuade.

Themes

belief influence self_deception

Mood

reflective critical

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • political_campaigns
  • marketing
  • personal_relationships
  • group_decision_making

Key Concepts

cognitive_dissonance social_psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do you seek external approval for your beliefs?
  • How does group pressure shape personal convictions?
A Different Perspective

Self‑justification can backfire if evidence contradicts the adopted belief.

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