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I went downstairs to Dad’s encyclopedia and looked up…

“I went downstairs to Dad’s encyclopedia and looked up HOMOSEXUALITY, but that didn’t tell me much about any of the things I felt. What struck me most, though, was that, in the whole long article, the word “love” wasn’t used even once. That made me mad; it was as if whoever wrote the article didn’t…” quote by Nancy Garden
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““I went downstairs to Dad’s encyclopedia and looked up HOMOSEXUALITY, but that didn’t tell me much about any of the things I felt. What struck me most, though, was that, in the whole long article, the word “love” wasn’t used even once. That made me mad; it was as if whoever wrote the article didn’t know that gay people actually love each other. The encyclopedia writers ought to talk to me, I thought as I went back to bed; I could tell them something about love.””

Nancy Garden

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The encyclopedia’s clinical tone omits love, highlighting how LGBTQ+ experiences are often dehumanized.

In simple terms: Encyclopedia excludes love for gay people.

Key Takeaway

Demand inclusive language.

Themes

representation identity love

Mood

advocacy empathetic

Type

activist educational

When to use this quote

  • education
  • policy making
  • mental health support
  • media representation

Key Concepts

LGBTQ+ visibility language bias

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can resources better reflect lived experiences?
  • What impact does missing love have on identity?
A Different Perspective

Exclusion reinforces stigma.

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