In the West we have a tendency to be profit-oriented…
““In the West we have a tendency to be profit-oriented, where everything is measured according to the results and we get caught up in being more and more active to generate results. In the East -- especially in India -- I find that people are more content to just be, to just sit around under a banyan tree for half a day chatting to each other. We Westerners would probably call that wasting time. But there is value to it. Being with someone, listening wihtout a clock and without anticipation of results, teaches us about love. The success of love is in the loving -- it is not in the result of loving. These words, taken from the book A Simple Path, are the words of one of the Missionaries of Charity Sisters, not of Mother Teresa. ””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Contrasts Western productivity focus with Eastern contemplative practices, highlighting love’s value beyond results.
In simple terms: Being present and listening teaches love, not achievement.
Practice mindful presence without expecting outcomes.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- team meetings
- personal retreats
- community gatherings
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “wasting time” teach us?
- How can we balance action and stillness?
Western focus on results may undervalue relational depth.