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“She disapproved, but part of her seemed secretly to sympathize with the sickness. It was like she thought everybody had it, and the best you could do was to cover it up, and sometimes it would just come boiling out anyway. Then you had to point at it and condemn it, even though you knew you had it…” quote by Mary Gaitskill
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“She disapproved, but part of her seemed secretly to sympathize with the sickness. It was like she thought everybody had it, and the best you could do was to cover it up, and sometimes it would just come boiling out anyway. Then you had to point at it and condemn it, even though you knew you had it too.”

Mary Gaitskill

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A person outwardly rejects a flaw but secretly shares it, leading to denial and eventual exposure.

In simple terms: Denial of shared flaws leads to hidden tension.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and own your own flaws.

Themes

denial sympathy conflict

Mood

reflective somber

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy
  • workplace dynamics
  • family gatherings

Key Concepts

psychology self-awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What flaws do you hide while condemning others?
  • How can honesty change the dynamic?
A Different Perspective

Self‑recognition is hard when blame is projected onto others.

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