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“How often one talks not to hear what the other person has got to say, but to hear what one has got to say oneself!” quote by Mary Elizabeth Coleridge
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“How often one talks not to hear what the other person has got to say, but to hear what one has got to say oneself!”

Mary Elizabeth Coleridge

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People often listen only to confirm their own views, not to understand others.

In simple terms: Listening for self‑validation, not insight.

Key Takeaway

Seek genuine understanding.

Themes

communication self‑awareness empathy

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • team meetings
  • relationships
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

active listening ego bias

Questions to Reflect On

  • How often do you prioritize your own voice over others?
  • What would change if you truly heard them?
A Different Perspective

Listening can be hindered by strong preconceptions.

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