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“When you find out who you are, you will no longer be innocent. That will be sad for others to see. All that knowledge will show on your face and change it. But sad only for others, not for yourself. You will feel you have a kind of wisdom, very mistaken, but a mistake of some power to you and so…” quote by Lorrie Moore
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“When you find out who you are, you will no longer be innocent. That will be sad for others to see. All that knowledge will show on your face and change it. But sad only for others, not for yourself. You will feel you have a kind of wisdom, very mistaken, but a mistake of some power to you and so you will sadly treasure it and grow it.”

Lorrie Moore

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Realizing one’s true self brings loss of innocence and a bittersweet awareness that others may judge, yet it also grants a flawed wisdom that one may cling to.

In simple terms: Self‑knowledge ends innocence, brings painful insight.

Key Takeaway

Accept the loss, use insight wisely, avoid arrogance.

Themes

identity innocence wisdom self‑awareness social perception

Mood

introspective melancholic

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • personal therapy
  • creative writing workshops
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

psychology existentialism personal growth social judgement

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does losing innocence mean for personal relationships?
  • How can we balance self‑knowledge with humility?
A Different Perspective

The “wisdom” may be mistaken, leading to false confidence.

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