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“In the ordinary course of things, how many succeed in society merely by virtue of their manners, while others, however meritorious, fail through lack of them? After all, it's only barbarians who wear uncut precious stones.” quote by Lord Chesterfield
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“In the ordinary course of things, how many succeed in society merely by virtue of their manners, while others, however meritorious, fail through lack of them? After all, it's only barbarians who wear uncut precious stones.”

Lord Chesterfield

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Success often depends more on social skills and presentation than on merit alone; lacking manners can undermine achievement.

In simple terms: Manners can outweigh merit.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate good etiquette.

Themes

social skill merit presentation

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • career advancement
  • networking
  • leadership
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

Etiquette social capital

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you improve your social presence?
  • What role do manners play in your field?
A Different Perspective

Manners alone cannot guarantee success without competence.

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