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The problem with revenge is that it never gets what it…

“The problem with revenge is that it never gets what it wants; it never evens the score. Fairness never comes. The chain reaction set off by every act of vengeance always takes its unhindered course. It ties both the injured and the injurer to an escalator of pain...Why do family feuds go on and…” quote by Lewis B. Smedes
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“The problem with revenge is that it never gets what it wants; it never evens the score. Fairness never comes. The chain reaction set off by every act of vengeance always takes its unhindered course. It ties both the injured and the injurer to an escalator of pain...Why do family feuds go on and on?...the reason is simple: no two people, no two families, ever weigh pain on the same scale.”

Lewis B. Smedes

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Revenge fails to restore balance and only spreads suffering, binding both parties to ongoing pain.

In simple terms: Revenge doesn’t bring fairness; it just continues hurt.

Key Takeaway

Avoid vengeance; seek reconciliation.

Themes

justice revenge pain family conflict

Mood

reflective somber

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family disputes
  • legal retaliation
  • personal grudges
  • community mediation

Key Concepts

moral philosophy psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can forgiveness break the cycle of pain?
  • What alternatives exist to retaliation?
A Different Perspective

Revenge may feel justified but often escalates harm.

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