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Cats have a sort of game they play when they meet. A…

“Cats have a sort of game they play when they meet. A player alternates between watching the strange cat and ignoring her, grooming or examining everything around herself - a dead leaf, a cloud - with complete absorption. It is almost accidental how the two cats approach, a sidelong step and then…” quote by Kij Johnson
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“Cats have a sort of game they play when they meet. A player alternates between watching the strange cat and ignoring her, grooming or examining everything around herself - a dead leaf, a cloud - with complete absorption. It is almost accidental how the two cats approach, a sidelong step and then the sitting again. This often ends in a flurry of spitting and slashing claws, too fast to see clearly, and then one or the other (or both) of the cats leap out of range. The game can have one exchange or many - and is not so different from the first meetings of women.”

Kij Johnson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Cats engage in a playful, ritualistic dance of approach and retreat, mirroring human courtship dynamics.

In simple terms: Cats play a dance like humans meet.

Key Takeaway

Notice subtle patterns in social interactions.

Themes

courtship play observation

Mood

observational analytical

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • animal behavior studies
  • team building
  • first impressions

Key Concepts

ethology social dynamics ritual

Questions to Reflect On

  • What signals do you miss in first meetings?
  • How can awareness of subtle cues improve relationships?
A Different Perspective

Human interactions are more complex than simple play.

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