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“You have always been alone, always self-centered and fearful of opening yourself to other persons, for to do so is to risk rejection and pain. But it is a risk we are born to take, we humans. We cannot live alone, cannot find happiness or peace alone, cannot love alone. The person alone must…” quote by Julian May
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““You have always been alone, always self-centered and fearful of opening yourself to other persons, for to do so is to risk rejection and pain. But it is a risk we are born to take, we humans. We cannot live alone, cannot find happiness or peace alone, cannot love alone. The person alone must always be fleeing, always searching. He flees from the loneliness without end. He searches, whether he will or not, for another who will fill his emptiness.””

Julian May

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Humans are inherently social; isolation causes pain, so we must risk connection despite fear of rejection.

In simple terms: We need others for happiness and peace.

Key Takeaway

Embrace vulnerability and seek companionship.

Themes

loneliness connection risk human nature

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • seeking friendships
  • building support networks
  • overcoming social anxiety
  • joining community groups

Key Concepts

existential psychology relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What fears hold you back from forming close bonds?
  • How can you balance self-protection with openness?
A Different Perspective

Risk of rejection can cause deeper hurt if not managed.

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