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“Miss Manners herself, while never rude, is given to pulling a fast pinch in the way of a handshake on those who believe in kissing on, not even the first date, but the first sighting.” quote by Judith Martin
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“Miss Manners herself, while never rude, is given to pulling a fast pinch in the way of a handshake on those who believe in kissing on, not even the first date, but the first sighting.”

Judith Martin

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Notes a subtle social rule: a handshake is preferred over a kiss on first sight, emphasizing decorum over intimacy.

In simple terms: Handshakes are proper on first meeting, not kisses.

Key Takeaway

Respect personal boundaries in introductions.

Themes

etiquette social norms personal space

Mood

thoughtful educational

Type

social cultural

When to use this quote

  • meeting new colleagues
  • first dates
  • networking events

Key Concepts

formal greetings cultural expectations gender dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is a kiss appropriate in a new relationship?
  • How do cultural differences affect greetings?
A Different Perspective

Handshakes can feel impersonal but maintain respect.

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