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“In my time first cousins did not meet like strangers. But we are learning modesty from the Americans, and old English ways are too gross for us.” quote by Joseph Sheridan Le Fanu
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““In my time first cousins did not meet like strangers. But we are learning modesty from the Americans, and old English ways are too gross for us.””

Joseph Sheridan Le Fanu

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The writer contrasts past close family ties with modern modesty influenced by foreign cultures, noting a loss of intimacy.

In simple terms: Family used to be close; now we’re more modest and distant.

Key Takeaway

Value genuine connections over superficial modesty.

Themes

family cultural change intimacy

Mood

nostalgic analytical

Type

reflective critical

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • cross‑cultural interactions
  • social etiquette

Key Concepts

sociology cultural adaptation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What aspects of modern modesty are beneficial?
  • How can we retain intimacy in changing cultures?
A Different Perspective

The critique may idealize past norms that weren’t universally positive.

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