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“Narcissistic Parents often enlist other family members on their side, causing rifts and building alliances against a “bad” child. In other words, they may bully their own children. The victims of such behavior often describe themselves as a “scapegoat,” held accountable for all the family…” quote by Joseph Burgo
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““Narcissistic Parents often enlist other family members on their side, causing rifts and building alliances against a “bad” child. In other words, they may bully their own children. The victims of such behavior often describe themselves as a “scapegoat,” held accountable for all the family troubles. Their mothers often compare them unfavorably to a sibling viewed as “golden,” one child a loser and the other a winner. Narcissistic Parents tell blatant lies, too, painting themselves as victims and their children as heartless ingrates.””

Joseph Burgo

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Narcissistic parents manipulate family members, creating divisions and scapegoating one child, often comparing siblings and lying to maintain control.

In simple terms: Abusive parents divide families and blame one child.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and set boundaries with toxic family.

Themes

family dynamics abuse manipulation scapegoat parenting control

Mood

sad empathetic

Type

analytical cautionary

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • support groups
  • boundary setting

Key Concepts

psychology toxic relationships family systems

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does scapegoating affect self‑esteem?
  • What strategies protect you from manipulation?
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