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“We call an obsession with having someone's approval 'co-dependency;' the Bible's word for it is idolatry. A country can be an idol. A family can be an idol.” quote by John Ortberg
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“We call an obsession with having someone's approval 'co-dependency;' the Bible's word for it is idolatry. A country can be an idol. A family can be an idol.”

John Ortberg

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Seeking others' approval is a form of idolatry, turning people or nations into idols

In simple terms: Approval seeking is modern idolatry

Key Takeaway

Recognize and release the need for external validation

Themes

faith idolatry validation

Mood

contemplative inquisitive

Type

spiritual philosophical

When to use this quote

  • church leadership
  • family dynamics
  • national politics
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

theology psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does approval seeking affect your decisions?
  • What practices help you stay grounded in personal values?
A Different Perspective

Not all approval seeking is harmful; some is healthy social feedback

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