Approval is a greater motivator than disapproval, but we…
“Approval is a greater motivator than disapproval, but we have to disapprove on occasion when we correct. It’s necessary. I make corrections only after I have proved to the individual that I highly value him. If they know we care for them, our correction won’t be seen as judgmental. I also try to never make it personal.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Positive reinforcement drives behavior more effectively than criticism; corrective feedback works when it follows demonstrated respect and care for the person.
In simple terms: Respectful correction boosts motivation.
Key Takeaway
Value people before correcting them.
Themes
motivation
leadership
feedback
respect
psychology
Mood
encouraging
thoughtful
constructive
Type
advice
leadership
psychology
When to use this quote
- coaching a team
- managing a staff
- mentoring a student
- guiding a peer
- parenting a child
Key Concepts
positive reinforcement
relationship building
communication
Practical Applications
- performance reviews
- conflict resolution
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you show appreciation before giving critique?
- What signals indicate that feedback is perceived as supportive?