four behaviors that trigger concerns about…
““four behaviors that trigger concerns about trustworthiness: leaning away; crossing arms; touching, rubbing, or grasping hands together; and touching the face, stomach, or other parts of the body. To varying degrees, these demonstrate anxiety, self-protection, and avoidance, all of which are at odds with the openness associated with warmth.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
These non‑verbal cues signal anxiety and self‑protection, which undermine perceived warmth and trust.
In simple terms: Body language can betray lack of trust.
Watch and adjust your gestures to appear open.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- job interviews
- team meetings
- client presentations
- networking events
- public speaking
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you convey openness without forcing gestures?
- What alternative signals can build trust?
If you are genuinely anxious, changing gestures may feel inauthentic.