there she is, and I am watching her through Plexiglas, and…
““there she is, and I am watching her through Plexiglas, and she looks like Margo Roth Spiegelman, this girl I have known since I was two–this girl who was an idea that I loved. And it is only now, when she closes her notebook and places it inside a backpack next to her and then stands up and walks toward us, that I realize that the idea is not only wrong by dangerous. What a treacherous thing it is to believe that a person is more than a person.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The narrator realizes that idealizing someone can be dangerous, as the real person may differ from the imagined ideal.
In simple terms: Idealizing people can be risky.
Question the gap between image and reality.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- personal growth
- self-reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you distinguish between a person and the idea of them?
- What risks arise from projecting fantasies onto others?
Idealization can blind us to true character.