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“Men see objects, women see the relationship between objects. Whether the objects need each other, love each other, match each other. It is an extra dimension of feeling we men are without and one that makes war abhorrent to all real women - and abusrd. I will tell you what war is. War is a…” quote by John Fowles
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““Men see objects, women see the relationship between objects. Whether the objects need each other, love each other, match each other. It is an extra dimension of feeling we men are without and one that makes war abhorrent to all real women - and abusrd. I will tell you what war is. War is a psychosis caused by an inability to see relationships. Our relationship with our fellow-men. Our relationship with our economic and historical situation. And above all our relationship to nothingness. To death.””

John Fowles

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Men focus on objects while women perceive relational connections; lacking this view leads to war, a psychosis of missing relationships with people, history, and mortality.

In simple terms: Men see things, women see connections; missing this causes war.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate awareness of relationships to prevent conflict.

Themes

gender perception war philosophy

Mood

thought‑provoking critical

Type

philosophical social

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • education
  • social policy
  • personal introspection

Key Concepts

psychology relationships existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we teach relational thinking?
  • What role does empathy play in preventing war?
A Different Perspective

Risk of overgeneralizing gender differences.

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