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“If a man felt hostility and aversion, but saw that he had poor or no grounds for his feeling, the remedy was to look for good or at least better grounds--a search hid predisposing thoughts would help him in.” quote by James Gould Cozzens
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““If a man felt hostility and aversion, but saw that he had poor or no grounds for his feeling, the remedy was to look for good or at least better grounds--a search hid predisposing thoughts would help him in.””

James Gould Cozzens

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

When hostility lacks justification, seek better reasons to soften resentment.

In simple terms: Find better reasons before staying angry.

Key Takeaway

Reevaluate feelings with new evidence.

Themes

self‑awareness empathy conflict resolution

Mood

reflective calm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace disputes
  • political debates

Key Concepts

cognitive bias emotional regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What evidence could change your view?
  • How can you practice empathy in conflict?
A Different Perspective

May overlook systemic issues when focusing only on personal feelings.

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