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“Faithfulness in Christian marriage entails that: great mortification. For a Christian man there is no escape. Marriage may help to sanctify and direct to its proper object his sexual desires; its grace may help him in the struggle; but the struggle remains. It will not satisfy him–as hunger may be…” quote by J.R.R. Tolkien
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““Faithfulness in Christian marriage entails that: great mortification. For a Christian man there is no escape. Marriage may help to sanctify and direct to its proper object his sexual desires; its grace may help him in the struggle; but the struggle remains. It will not satisfy him–as hunger may be kept off by regular meals. It will offer as many difficulties to the purity proper to that state, as it provides easements. No man, however truly he loved his betrothed and bride as a young man, has lived faithful to her as a wife in mind and body without deliberate conscious exercise of the will, without self-denial.””

J.R.R. Tolkien

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Christian marriage requires ongoing self‑discipline; it cannot automatically satisfy sexual desire without conscious effort.

In simple terms: Marriage needs active self‑control.

Key Takeaway

Practice intentional self‑denial.

Themes

marriage faith self‑discipline

Mood

reflective serious

Type

theological advice

When to use this quote

  • marital counseling
  • personal spiritual growth
  • relationship education

Key Concepts

Christian ethics sexuality willpower

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can couples cultivate mutual support for self‑discipline?
  • What role does community play in sustaining marital fidelity?
A Different Perspective

The quote assumes a universal Christian perspective, which may not apply to all believers.

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