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“Better be an old maid, a woman with herself as a husband, than the wife of a fool; and Solomon more than hints that all men are fools; and every wise man knows himself to be one.” quote by Herman Melville
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“Better be an old maid, a woman with herself as a husband, than the wife of a fool; and Solomon more than hints that all men are fools; and every wise man knows himself to be one.”

Herman Melville

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Self‑awareness reveals that even wise individuals recognize their own folly; better to be self‑sufficient than married to a fool.

In simple terms: Know your own foolishness; prefer self‑reliance.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate self‑knowledge and independence.

Themes

wisdom self‑awareness relationships

Mood

reflective introspective

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • friendships
  • leadership
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

Philosophy human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does self‑sufficiency mean to you?
  • How can you balance independence with healthy relationships?
A Different Perspective

Relying solely on self may lead to isolation.

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