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“My idea is this, that when you only love a little you’re naturally not jealous-or are only jealous also a little, so that it doesn’t matter. But when you love in a deeper and intenser way, then you’re in the very same proportion jealous; your jealousy has intensity and, no doubt, ferocity. When…” quote by Henry James
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“My idea is this, that when you only love a little you’re naturally not jealous-or are only jealous also a little, so that it doesn’t matter. But when you love in a deeper and intenser way, then you’re in the very same proportion jealous; your jealousy has intensity and, no doubt, ferocity. When however you love in the most abysmal and unutterable way of all – whey then you’re beyond everything, and nothing can pull you down.”

Henry James

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love intensity determines jealousy; deeper love brings stronger jealousy, while ultimate love transcends all envy.

In simple terms: Deeper love can cause stronger jealousy, but ultimate love frees you.

Key Takeaway

Recognize love’s depth and its effects on jealousy.

Themes

love jealousy emotional intensity

Mood

melancholic thoughtful

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • friendships
  • family dynamics
  • personal growth
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology human relationships

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can love be truly selfless without jealousy?
  • How does one achieve love that transcends all envy?
A Different Perspective

Jealousy can still arise even in deep love.

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