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“My friend is one who takes me for what I am. A stranger takes me for something else than what I am. . . . What men call social virtues, good fellowship, is commonly but the virtue of pigs in a litter which lie close together to keep each other warm. It brings men together in crowds and mobs in…” quote by Henry David Thoreau
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“My friend is one who takes me for what I am. A stranger takes me for something else than what I am. . . . What men call social virtues, good fellowship, is commonly but the virtue of pigs in a litter which lie close together to keep each other warm. It brings men together in crowds and mobs in bar-rooms and elsewhere, but it does not deserve the name of virtue.”

Henry David Thoreau

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He argues that popular social customs often mask selfish, animalistic motives rather than true moral virtue.

In simple terms: Social gatherings can hide selfishness.

Key Takeaway

Question true motives behind social rituals.

Themes

social critique human nature virtue

Mood

skeptical critical

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • political gatherings
  • workplace teams
  • community events
  • online forums

Key Concepts

collectivism selfishness authenticity

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you see authentic virtue in any social setting?
  • How can we distinguish genuine fellowship from self‑interest?
A Different Perspective

May overlook genuine kindness that exists in groups.

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