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Around young, beautiful, fat women, I am generally thrown…

“Around young, beautiful, fat women, I am generally thrown into confusion. I don’t know why. Maybe it’s because an image of their dietary habits naturally congeals in my mind. When I see a goodly sized woman, I have visions of her mopping up that last drop of cream sauce with bread, wolfing down…” quote by Haruki Murakami
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““Around young, beautiful, fat women, I am generally thrown into confusion. I don’t know why. Maybe it’s because an image of their dietary habits naturally congeals in my mind. When I see a goodly sized woman, I have visions of her mopping up that last drop of cream sauce with bread, wolfing down that final sprig of watercress garnish from her plate. And once that happens, it’s like acid corroding metal: scenes of her eating spread through my head and I lose control. Your plain fat woman is fine. Fat women are like clouds in the sky. They’re just floating there, nothing to do with me. But your young, beautiful, fat woman is another story. I am demanded to assume a posture toward her. I could end up sleeping with her. That is probably where all the confusion comes in. Sex is an extremely subtle undertaking, unlike going to the department store on Sunday to buy a thermos. In this sense, sleeping with fat women can be a challenge. There must be as many paths of human fat as there ways of human death.””

Haruki Murakami

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator is perplexed by sexual attraction to overweight women, linking desire to visceral, almost corrosive mental images, while contrasting with indifferent attitudes toward “plain” fat women.

In simple terms: Attraction to certain body types can trigger intense, confusing thoughts that feel overwhelming.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and examine personal biases without judgment.

Themes

sexuality body image desire conflict

Mood

conflicted introspective uneasy

Type

personal psychological literary

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • self‑reflection
  • media consumption
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

psychology social perception gender norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do cultural standards shape our attractions?
  • Can we separate physical preference from emotional connection?
A Different Perspective

The passage may exaggerate personal fetishization, risking stereotyping and objectification.

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