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I don't like the feeling of being 'had'. Nobody does. It…

“I don't like the feeling of being 'had'. Nobody does. It has long been my inclination to take the people I meet at face value, and I believe that I tend to grant others the kindness and attention I would ask of them. I'm not so full of myself that I'm not aware when I have failed to live up to…” quote by George Wier
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““I don't like the feeling of being 'had'.  Nobody does.  It has long been my inclination to take the people I meet at face value, and I believe that I tend to grant others the kindness and attention I would ask of them.  I'm not so full of myself that I'm not aware when I have failed to live up to this creed, but when I see the same failing in others, particularly when it is through malice, I get a little... peeved.””

George Wier

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Treat others with kindness and honesty, and feel upset when they act maliciously.

In simple terms: Be kind, expect kindness, dislike malice.

Key Takeaway

Practice empathy, call out malice.

Themes

kindness integrity empathy

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

ethical reflective

When to use this quote

  • customer service
  • teamwork
  • friendships
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

ethics social behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance kindness with self‑respect?
  • When should you confront malicious behavior?
A Different Perspective

People may misinterpret kindness as weakness.

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