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Since you think it my duty, Mr. Farebrother, I will tell…

“Since you think it my duty, Mr. Farebrother, I will tell you that I have too strong a feeling for Fred to give him up for any one else. I should never be quite happy if I thought he was unhappy for the loss of me. It has taken such deep root in me—my gratitude to him for always loving me best, and…” quote by George Eliot
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““Since you think it my duty, Mr. Farebrother, I will tell you that I have too strong a feeling for Fred to give him up for any one else. I should never be quite happy if I thought he was unhappy for the loss of me. It has taken such deep root in me—my gratitude to him for always loving me best, and minding so much if I hurt myself, from the time when we were very little. I cannot imagine any new feeling coming to make that weaker.””

George Eliot

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator expresses deep, conflicted love and gratitude, fearing loss and questioning whether new emotions could diminish existing bonds.

In simple terms: Strong love feels fragile and fear losing it.

Key Takeaway

Cherish deep connections, but stay open to growth.

Themes

love gratitude fear of loss emotional conflict

Mood

thoughtful introspective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • family dynamics
  • friendship
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

attachment dependency personal growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can love evolve without loss?
  • How to balance gratitude with personal growth?
A Different Perspective

New feelings may not weaken but enrich existing love.

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