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And Casaubon had done a wrong to Dorothea in marrying her…

“And Casaubon had done a wrong to Dorothea in marrying her. A man was bound to know himself better than that, and if he chose to grow grey crunching bones in a cavern, he had no business to be luring a girl into his companionship. 'It is the most horrible of virgin sacrifices,' said Will; and he…” quote by George Eliot
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““And Casaubon had done a wrong to Dorothea in marrying her. A man was bound to know himself better than that, and if he chose to grow grey crunching bones in a cavern, he had no business to be luring a girl into his companionship. 'It is the most horrible of virgin sacrifices,' said Will; and he painted to himself what were Dorothea's inward sorrows as if he had been writing a choric wail.””

George Eliot

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A man who avoids personal growth cannot truly love, leading to emotional sacrifice.

In simple terms: Stagnation harms relationships.

Key Takeaway

Pursue self‑knowledge to love fully.

Themes

love self‑knowledge growth

Mood

melancholic thoughtful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • personal development
  • literary analysis

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does personal growth mean for you?
  • How can you avoid becoming a “virgin sacrifice”?
A Different Perspective

Love alone cannot compensate for personal stagnation.

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