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It's a long haul bringing up our children to be good; you…

“It's a long haul bringing up our children to be good; you have to keep doing that — bring them up — and that means bringing things up with them: Asking, telling, sounding them out, sounding off yourself — finding, through experience, your own words, your own way of putting them together. You have…” quote by Erik Erikson
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““It's a long haul bringing up our children to be good; you have to keep doing that — bring them up — and that means bringing things up with them: Asking, telling, sounding them out, sounding off yourself — finding, through experience, your own words, your own way of putting them together. You have to learn where you stand, and make sure your kids learn [where you stand], understand why, and soon, you hope, they'll be standing there beside you, with you.””

Erik Erikson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Parenting is an ongoing, collaborative process where parents model values and reasoning, guiding children to understand and adopt them.

In simple terms: Raising kids is a shared learning journey.

Key Takeaway

Model values, engage in dialogue.

Themes

parenting values communication

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family meals
  • conflict resolution
  • teaching moments
  • generational dialogue

Key Concepts

developmental psychology identity formation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you model authenticity in tough conversations?
  • What habits help you stay consistent in your values?
A Different Perspective

Children may resist or misinterpret parental guidance.

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