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When I see them here, in their rooms, in their offices…

“When I see them here, in their rooms, in their offices, about their occupations, I feel an irresistible attraction in it, I would like to be here too and forget the war; but it repels me, it is so narrow, how can that fill a man’s life, he ought to smash it to bits; how can they do it, while out…” quote by Erich Maria Remarque
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““When I see them here, in their rooms, in their offices, about their occupations, I feel an irresistible attraction in it, I would like to be here too and forget the war; but it repels me, it is so narrow, how can that fill a man’s life, he ought to smash it to bits; how can they do it, while out at the front the splinters are whining over the shell-holes and the star-shells go up, the wounded are carried back on waterproof sheets and comrades crouch in the trenches. – They are different men here, men I cannot properly understand, whom I envy and despise.””

Erich Maria Remarque

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker is torn between admiration for civilian life and horror of war, feeling both attraction and repulsion, and questioning how such narrow existence can fulfill a person.

In simple terms: War creates a clash between longing for normal life and the harsh reality of conflict.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the conflict between desire for peace and the brutal truth of war.

Themes

war existence contradiction humanity envy

Mood

conflicted reflective

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • frontline experience
  • civilian life
  • psychological reflection

Key Concepts

disillusionment psychology social critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do we reconcile admiration for normalcy with the trauma of war?
  • What does “smash it to bits” suggest about rejecting narrow roles?
A Different Perspective

The quote may romanticize civilian life without acknowledging its own struggles.

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