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To a woman flattery is not flattery.It is a compliment…

“To a woman flattery is not flattery.It is a compliment, which unfortunately in these miserable days has become all to rare. A woman is not a piece of steel furniture; she is a flower - she does not ask for reality; she wants the warm, gay sun of flattery.It is better to say something pretty to her…” quote by Erich Maria Remarque
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““To a woman flattery is not flattery.It is a compliment, which unfortunately in these miserable days has become all to rare. A woman is not a piece of steel furniture; she is a flower - she does not ask for reality; she wants the warm, gay sun of flattery.It is better to say something pretty to her every day, than to slave grimly for her all your life.””

Erich Maria Remarque

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Flattery, when sincere, uplifts women; insincere compliments feel hollow and diminish genuine appreciation.

In simple terms: Sincere compliments uplift; insincere feel hollow.

Key Takeaway

Offer genuine praise daily.

Themes

gender communication esteem social norms

Mood

thoughtful encouraging

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • daily interactions
  • relationship building
  • workplace culture

Key Concepts

flattery authenticity gender dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you ensure compliments are genuine?
  • What impact does sincere praise have on relationships?
A Different Perspective

Over‑flattering can seem manipulative if not sincere.

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